Chinedu Ani Emmanuel, popularly known as Nedu, a controversial media personality and actor, has expressed his opinion on the topic of male “besties” in relationships.
According to him, a man who allows his partner to have a male best friend is not a real man and should not tolerate such a situation.
Nedu emphasized that a real man would never allow his girlfriend, fiancée, or wife to have a male best friend, as it goes against his definition of masculinity.
In a video message shared on his Instagram account, Nedu advised men not to engage in fights with other men over a woman.
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He stated that even if a man catches his partner cheating with another man, it is the woman who disrespected him, and he should not involve himself in a physical altercation with the other man.
Nedu believes that real men do not fight over women and should prioritize their own self-respect.
Furthermore, Nedu cautioned against pursuing women who do not reciprocate feelings or interest. He believes that wasting time and resources on someone who does not have genuine feelings for you is futile.
Nedu advises men to focus their efforts on women who appreciate and value them, whether it be in financial, psychological, spiritual, emotional, or other aspects.
Lastly, Nedu emphasized that real men do not spend money on women who do not contribute positively to their lives.
He clarified that adding value does not solely refer to financial contributions but can also include psychological, spiritual, emotional, or other forms of support.
Nedu believes that men should invest their resources wisely and prioritize relationships that are mutually beneficial.
