Toke Makinwa sets the record straight, addressing misconceptions and affirming her strong support for the institution of marriage.
Toke Makinwa, a media personality and entrepreneur, has clarified that she does not hold any negative opinions about marriage or men.
Toke took to her Instagram story to clear the air and explain that she is frequently misunderstood as having a negative view of marriage or being a man-hater, but in reality, she strongly supports the institution.
Toke asserted that in the present era, people value material possessions more than authentic relationships, resulting in a society where individuals are easily replaceable.
Concerned about the community’s erosion and emotional barriers that impede significant relationships, she voiced her apprehensions.
According to Toke, prioritizing personal tranquility instead of communal unity is an error that can result in a society where people settle for isolation rather than pursuing fulfilling connections.
Her words read as follows: “It’s amusing how the perception being spread is that I despise men or promote male bashing. On the contrary, I wholeheartedly support marriage because two heads are better than one. However, given the current disposition of this generation…”
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The order of our priorities has become distorted. Instead of valuing individuals and utilizing objects, we have reversed this approach. In previous times, people were held in high esteem while items served their intended purposes. However, as members of the current generation, many believe that anyone can be replaced at any time which leads to a decrease in investment towards one another since everyone thinks they can find someone better later on down the line.
Our perception of success, based on material possessions and societal influences, dictates our every move. In the past, raising children was a communal effort but now we have built walls that isolate us from one another.
The focus should be on what we contribute instead of personal interests. Unfortunately, many individuals prioritize their own well-being and fail to engage with others, resulting in an unbalanced approach. It’s crucial that people unite for the greater good rather than solely seeking individual satisfaction – this is the only way towards achieving collective peace.
“If we don’t start fixing things, many individuals will choose a solitary life with peace rather than striving for occasional happiness and superficial connections. Thank you for attending my Tedtalk; it has been some time since I’ve spoken here. Farewell.”
